1. Conflict Resolution is the goal.

You will come across all sorts of shills
which is most easily determined by
willingness to 'resolve conflict' so that
mutually beneficial outcomes are possible.
This is called a mutually reciprocal relationship.

Judaism in all its forms is the 'opposite'
of a mutually reciprocal relationship.

2. 8th grade level of reading comprehension
is the pre-requiset for mental health.

It takes a lot of Learning to make it to the 8th grade
and reading wise you should be able to fully comprehend 
and apply the subject matter you are engaging.
If a person is refusing to engage in 'mental health'
at an 8th grade level,
it's shill work at best.